HER - Lesbian Dating App

Contains adsIn-app purchases
4.0
54.9K reviews
5M+
Downloads
Content rating
USK: Ages 18+
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About this app

Her is the biggest (and best!) app for lesbian, bisexual and queer women worldwide. Surround yourself with new awesome friends, go on dates, find local LGBTQ events or just chat away.

Her is the app you and our community were waiting for.


// HER IS:

* THE MOST POPULAR APP FOR LGBTQIA WOMEN. They're all on HER! Get to know every gay & bisexual woman you ever wanted to meet

* CRITICALLY-ACCLAIMED. Loved by critics, press and members alike

* BEAUTIFUL AND SIMPLY DESIGNED. Her feels right

* FRIENDLY. Be yourself and feel welcomed!

* MUCH MORE THAN DATING. Where you read news, find out what’s happening in your city, make friends and ask for advice.

* LOCAL. Meet women in your neighbourhood and attend local events

* GLOBAL. One huge worldwide community


// FEATURES:

* VERIFIED ACCOUNTS. No men, no fakes. Her is a safe space for our community. You know you’re talking to real people

* EASY SIGN-UP. Forget lame forms, use private one-click sign-up with Facebook or Instagram to get chatting

* LIKES. Send one to let her know you want to chat. Quick and no unwelcomed messages

* FRIENDS. Add your friends to stay in touch with them and always be able to message each other

* LOCAL MEMBERS. Use Meet to swipe through other users nearby

* POSTS. Ask a question to the community or tell everyone worldwide what you’re up to

* LINKS. Post, read, watch, listen and comment the coolest queer links and videos you’ve seen today

* QUEER EVENTS. Shared by the community in your area. Parties, meetups, festivals and more

* NOTIFICATIONS. Reply to every like, comment, match you’ve received

* RELATIONSHIP MODE. In a relationship? No problem. Let everyone know you’re only looking for friends and not dating


// ABOUT HER:

HER welcomes every female-identified and non-binary people aged 18+.

HER used to be known as Dattch.
Updated on
30 Oct 2025

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
This app may share these data types with third parties
Personal info, Financial info and 2 others
This app may collect these data types
Location, Personal info and 6 others
Data is encrypted in transit
You can request that data be deleted

Ratings and reviews

4.0
54.2K reviews
robyn merchant
18 August 2025
I like every aspect about this app- but, as it is, it's essentially unusable. There's the big countdown when you "run out of likes" that tells you to wait for the next day, which I'm fine with ... except it doesn't let you see more the next day! It goes from "1 minute" to "wait another 24 hours"! Hello?? What's the point of the timer if it doesn't actually countdown to when you can use the app again ???
20 people found this review helpful
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Nina Grundmann
25 August 2025
if you pay, this app is really great. I love the little details and everything you can check and all the funny little things you can add to your profile!! BUT the chat drives me INSANE. it doesn't scroll above your keyboard so you can't see what you're typing and sometimes you won't see some of the messages unless you constantly put your screens keyboard away and then get it back up again. it's SO infuriating because a message that would usually take me a few seconds takes a minute instead.
7 people found this review helpful
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Anna Supes Ramm
27 May 2025
Pretty basic dating app interface, though I do like that it's geared exclusively toward sapphic folks. One downside is that the bio text limit is pretty short. Also, some features like communities are not very intuitive... and there doesn't seem to be any content monitoring to make sure people don't spam communities with off-topic posts. The breakout feature WOULD have been the friend request option -- BUT I CAN'T GET IT TO WORK. It doesn't appear for me at all. What do I do???
32 people found this review helpful
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HER App
27 May 2025
Thanks for sharing your honest feedback. We totally understand that removing Friend Requests can feel like a big change, especially if it’s been a go-to way for you to connect. Your feedback means a lot to us, and we’ll definitely pass it along to the team as we keep working to make HER the best it can be.

What's new

To improve your experience, we update the app regularly. This update contains both performance enhancements and new features!